There is no shortage of people who hate online dating. Some blindly refuse to ever try it. Some go so far as to even sign up for an online dating site just to say they tried it. They go on for a month and just wait for magic to happen. Then it doesn’t and they say online dating is horrible and pointless but they tried, so they are justified in never trying again. But they didn’t try. They looked for an excuse to fail.
You can look for an excuse to fail at anything. Half trying is the best way to not get results and blame someone or something else.
I know for a fact many people don’t like online dating. I get it. I’ve done it. A lot. I’ve been in your exact shoes. I’ve had people reject me. I’ve had guys I was interested in drop off. I’ve been on bad dates. I’ve written and re-written my profile. I’ve been on dates with men who didn’t look like their pictures. I’ve been contacted by creeps, scammers and men old enough to have grandfathered me. I’ve been contacted by men I wasn’t remotely interested in. I’ve spent hours on hour on my computer screen, on my phone, looking and communicating, trying different sites and apps. It didn’t happen instantly for me. Once I figured out online dating, I minimized the bad experiences but I wasn’t immune to them. Man nor woman is isolated from bad online experiences.
But at the end of the road of all of that… I met him. And I met him online. I’ve taken my last online date. And so have millions of other couples. I would have never met him otherwise and for that, I’m so grateful to online dating.
Even with it’s flaws, online dating works!
But you have to work too! At anything in life, you have to work at it. You have to put effort in to get what you want. Whether it’s your job or your personal life. You can’t do it half-heartedly and expect great results. I worked hard in my personal life and I got a great guy to show for it.
If you’re doing online dating or you are seriously considering it, good for you! And I’m serious about that. You’ve found yourself on my site because you’re that involved. Good for you because you are the one that’s going to succeed!
I can’t wait to help you find your last online date.